Longevity in Any Relationship Depends on Communication and Accountability

Back when I was working as a graphic designer in my studio, I used to get sales reps dropping in to sell me their services on a regular basis. Most of them I’d see once or twice and then they disappeared. All except one. His name was Alistar, and he represented a large printing company.…

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Why Men Get Rejected on Approaches

I was having coffee in a café the other day, and I noticed this guy checking out a woman sitting about two tables away. He got up and walked past her table, then walked back to his table. He did this a couple of times pretending he was getting a different paper when he hadn’t…

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Who Pays on a First Date?

I’m kinda old fashioned about who pays when you’re out on a date, particularly a first date. Here’s my take on this issue. If I ask her out, she’s my guest and the expense is my responsibility. I wouldn’t invite my friends to a dinner party and expect them to pay or contribute towards the…

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5 tips to be better at being single after divorce

It’s natural that after being married for ten, twenty, or more years, men and women develop ways of being, habits, rules for getting through the week, month, years. These habits and rules are the coping mechanisms that get them through constant and predictable activities of living together and raising a family. It needs to be…

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When Life Loses Its Wonder

The other day I caught the train to Melbourne and opposite me sat an old man. He caught my eye because he looked so beat, mouth downturned, eyebrows frowned, his eyes staring at nothing while reflecting what I felt was a seething anger. I looked at him with more interest and realized that he couldn’t…

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Sugar Daddies And Sugar Babies

It’s nothing new, wealthy men have always bought desirable women. Prostitution is the oldest profession and it caters for every socio/economic level, from the street walker, the brothel worker, the call girl, the escort, to the sugar baby. The only variance is the cost of the service. Using producers of the show as undercover spies,…

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Confident Men are Attractive

Your level of confidence is determined by many factors that make up who you are. Many of these you can’t change. You can’t change your height or your skin color or how much hair you have left, or whether you had a hard upbringing. But… You can change what you have control over. You can change:…

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Rejection Sucks!

Recently I came across this question in an article by Maureen Matthews. Q: “I’m an attractive, successful, 30-year-old woman who feels disheartened about ever meeting “Mr Right”. I’ve joined a few meet-up groups (a book club, a wine appreciation group, and a walking club), and am on a dating site. I’ve met some nice guys,…

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The second date is determined by the first.

Getting a first date may seem to be relatively easy. Getting a second is a different matter all together. Whether face-to-face or on-line, most first dates are based on first impressions. You introduce yourself, build rapport, get her number and call later to make the date. Based on that exchange there is not much at…

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Have you ever said to yourself…“what does she see in that jerk?”

What makes a man stand out to women from across the room? Why do women swoon when some men speak, but not others? What is it that makes women feel like HE IS THE ONE I’m taking home? The answer is that it’s many things but assertiveness underpins them all. Assertiveness is one of the…

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