I was married for 29 years the first time and only 18 months the second. Each ending brought about massive emotional trauma. Both times it took me about 2 years to recover and re-learn how to be actively social as a bachelor. Each time I got better at letting go of the hurt, better at being social, better at dating and better at enjoying my life. As other divorced men sought my advice on how to get back into the dating scene and live life on their terms as bachelor's, my desire to help men who find themselves in social limbo after divorce grew and led me to establishing The EX-perienced Bachelor.